|What To Avoid With Adult Dating
Adult dating is utterly fantastic. Its a cheap, simple way to have no strings attached sex with someone that wants the same thing. You dont have to hit the clubs and bars and work all night long to convince some girl to go home with you. You dont have to spend crazy amounts of money on overpriced drinks. You buy a membership at an adult dating site, you send out some messages, and then you have some fun. Its possible for your experience to go horribly wrong though, and youll want to avoid that if at all possible.
Most often, something goes wrong when you hook up with an unstable chick. Not surprisingly, there are a fair number of unstable chicks on adult dating sites. If you end up with a woman like that anything can happen. A mentally unhinged woman could easily attack you with a household implement and really ruin your night if you manage to make the wrong choice. Theres a fine line between the kind of crazy woman that makes sex totally mind blowing and the kind of crazy woman that makes sex really dangerous because she might bring out a knife and try and stab you.
Obviously Im exaggerating a little, but there are pitfalls youll want to avoid. You dont want to be in bed with a girl that’s fucking you because she wants revenge on her boyfriend that lives in the apartment next door. You dont want to end up with a woman playing strange games with her husband. You probably dont want someone youve never met trying you up, no matter how kinky it sounds. Some women are utter predators and will rob you blind if you take them back to your place. Yeah, adult dating can be hazardous if you dont know how to avoid these crazy ladies.
Reading the profile is the first step. If its a total mess and makes little to no sense, has absolutely terrible spelling and grammar, or reads like the ramblings of a crazy person, just avoid it. No matter how hot she is you need to pass because that stuff tends to be the signs of someone that isnt all there. The opposite can also be an issue. By which I mean, if something seems to good to be true then it probably is. If you read a profile and she sounds like the perfect woman theres a good chance shes working a scam. She might ask you for money when you meet in which case she’s just an escort working an adult dating site or she might just steal your stuff when you go to sleep or even to the bathroom. It takes a careful eye to spot those profiles but read enough of them and youll know which ones are fake. The same goes for girls that have mind blowingly hot pictures. Theyre usually not real or scamming in some way.
If you cant resist contacting one of these red flag girls then you should at least arrange a meeting at a neutral site first. A coffee shop or a bar works just fine for that. In fact, you should do it with every potential sex date The neutral site meeting is a great way to suss out in person whether youre dealing with a crazy person. Always have an excuse ready in case you dont want to pull the trigger or you’re getting a weird vibe. The in person meeting can be trouble if she happens to be really hot because you might overlook bad signs in hopes of getting to fuck the girl before she can go all crazy on you. Try your best not to give in to the bad impulses. Most of us can read when someone is nuts and the bottom line is that you want to avoid nutty girls when adult dating. Go for the ones with a little bit of sanity. They will rock your world.